Question:
I want to wear Hijab?
anonymous
2010-05-12 12:14:17 UTC
Salam, i converted to islam one year ago alhamduillah. However i have tried to take islam slowly by slowly i have stoped everything haram i was doing before the only thing i havent done is put on the hijab. My husband says it is still early, and he doesnt want it to cause a problem with my family, as they will reject me and it will be hard for them.. Also i work in a company where the money is haram and i need to know if i wear hijab in there will it be ok or not....will it make muslims look bad if i am working in an office where it is illegal what they are doing???? Please help, as i really want to wear hijab now inshallah
Thirteen answers:
miia
2010-05-12 12:39:46 UTC
May Allah (swt) bless you sister! And although I'm a little late, welcome to Islam! Peace and blessings be upon you. Dear Sister, Hijab is mandatory, and if I were you I would wear it. If you really want to, then GO FOR IT! Hijab is beautiful, it's freedom. People look at you as a person instead of a woman (physically). You are showing modesty and guarding your chastity. Inshallah you will be rewarded. A professional and respectable job would allow you to wear a hijab. If you are gainging money the haraam way, I advise you to quit that job and find a fair one if you can sister.! Hijab is beautiful and comes in so many nice designs. But it's not all about the looks of course. Remember that when wearing hijab it changes you for the better from within. You start being respected, and respectable. You will feel beautiful. Go on and wear it sister, for the sake of Allah (swt) :) may Allah (swt) reward us all Inshallah!
pink butterfly
2010-05-12 19:54:43 UTC
If you parents know that your converted already than the hijab would be less of a blow. Just put it on and if your family doesn't accept it than sadly that is the way it will have to be because importance comes first. You may need to sit down though and explain the necessity of hijab. Might also help if you sat down ahead of time with them and told them that the next time you see them you will be wearing hijab.



Hopefully if your parents love you as their daughter then they will eventually get used to you wearing hijab. Once you give them grand-children I would have to guess that they would start to be okay with you again.



Best wishes for how you go about doing it. My parents were the same way, but they got used to it, especially when the grand-children came. Doesn't mean they like it but they have to tolerate it.
M. Knight ♥Sunnah Defender♥
2010-05-12 20:58:40 UTC
Salam sister,

You mentioned two things in your question: Wearing hijab and ur parents and husband's view point about it and then having a Haram job.

As for the first, a whole year is enough for u to start wearing Hijab, though many converts start wearing it as soon as they announce shahada. But Islam is always open for baby steps and I think it's time for you to start dressing according to how Allah told u to. As for ur husband, I would tell him there is no early or late when it comes to obeying Allah's orders. When Allah ordered the Muslim women to wear Hijab and Muslim women heard that from the prophet peace be upon him, every woman looked around her to find something to hide her head and bosom.

And concerning ur parents, if they accepted you as a Muslim, why would hijab bother them? Everything for them is just a matter of time and soon they will get use to it. And most of all, your hijab and modesty might be a kind of "da'wa" for them and will make them start thinking which one is better, to be half naked or to be respectable and properly covered? If they asked why, then explain to them and always be tender and kind to them.

As for ur job, I advice you to leave it for the sake of Allah and alhamdolillah you have a husband who can support you and you do not have to work if you don't want to, but if you want to, then you can start looking for a halal job. Always remember that if you gave up something for the sake of Allah, Allah will reward you with something much better than that both in this life and in the hereafter.



Abu Hurairah, radiyallahu 'anhu, reported that the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, said:



“Verily Allah the Exalted is pure. He does not accept but that which is pure. Allah commands the believers with what He commanded the Messengers. Allah the Almighty has said: "O you Messengers! Eat of the good things and act righteously" [23:51-53]. And Allah the Almighty also said: "O you who believe! Eat of the good things that We have provided you with" [2:167-172]. Then he (the Prophet) mentioned (the case of) the man who, having journeyed far, is dishevelled and dusty and who stretches out his hands to the sky (saying): "O Lord! O Lord!" (while) his food was unlawful, his drink was unlawful, his clothing was unlawful, and he is nourished with unlawful things, so how can he be answered?”



[Muslim]



On the authority of Abu 'Abdullah al-Nu'man bin Bashir, radiyallahu 'anhu, who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam, say:



"Truly, what is lawful is evident, and what is unlawful is evident, and in between the two are matters which are doubtful which many people do not know. He who guards against doubtful things keeps his religion and honour blameless, and he who indulges in doubtful things indulges in fact in unlawful things, just as a shepherd who pastures his flock round a preserve will soon pasture them in it. Beware, every king has a preserve, and the things Allah has declared unlawful are His preserves. Beware, in the body there is a flesh; if it is sound, the whole body is sound, and if it is corrupt, the whole body is corrupt, and behold, it is the heart."



[Al-Bukhari & Muslim]



Allah knows best.
Muslim Journalist
2010-05-13 01:21:17 UTC
Hijab is fard upon all girls who have reached puberty so you have to wear hijab otherwise you are getting bad credit for disobeying Allah (SWT). You do not know when you are going to die, so it is best to strive to please Allah (SWT) while still alive. As for your job, quit that and look for a hala job or go to college to make something of yourself with a four-year degree. Or stay at home and tend to your husband and the home. Who cares what your family thinks and if they disown you? I don't let my family's hatred of me being Muslim stop me from praying or wearing hijab.
Hope - أمل
2010-05-12 19:21:58 UTC
Sister, May Allah bless you!



Hijab is compulsory - so I think you should wear it and accept the consequences - nothing is more important than Allah.



As for your income - if it is gained doing haram things then you should immediately leave your job and find another one.



I'm just saying the general rulings on the two subjects you stated.



Salaam.
timelady
2010-05-12 21:46:49 UTC
You voluntarily converted to Islam by your free will. Do you know the penalty for leaving? Apostacy=death penalty. Why would you be a part of such a religion?
anonymous
2010-05-12 19:47:12 UTC
Yes, if they are doing things and you are Muslim there and people know they are doing bad things, it will reflect upon people's impressions of Muslims. The way people are, they are likely to think the whole operation is run by Muslims. Inshallah, you can find another job quickly.
anonymous
2010-05-12 20:05:47 UTC
So do I, I allready wear mine sister in laws underwears
anonymous
2010-05-12 19:23:52 UTC
you Reverted sister not converted.



Wear your hijab and quit the job
anonymous
2010-05-12 19:30:31 UTC
i know its difficult i wear the hamise when i'm in birmingham uk but not when i'm in a small town,but then again i don't have to wear it,take your time
anonymous
2010-05-12 19:16:47 UTC
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anonymous
2010-05-12 21:21:14 UTC
Among the many topics of interest to non-Muslims, the status of Muslim women and the theme of their rights -- or rather, the perceived lack of them – seems to be foremost. The media’s portrayal of Muslim women, usually outlining their “oppression and mystery” seems to contribute to this negative perception.

The main reason for this is that people often fail to distinguish between culture and religion -- two things that are completely different. In fact, Islam condemns oppression of any kind whether it is towards a woman or humankind in general.



The Quran is the sacred book by which Muslims live. This book was revealed 1400 years ago to a man named Muhammad –peace be upon him-, who would later become the Prophet –peace be upon him-. Fourteen centuries have passed and this book has not been changed since, not one letter has been altered.



In chapter 33, entitled Soorah Al-Ahzaab (The Clans), verse 59 Allaah The Exalted Almighty Says (what means): "O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the woman of the believers to bring down over themselves (part) of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known (as free respectable women) and not be abused. And ever is Allaah Forgiving and Merciful." [Quran 33:59] This verse shows that Islam makes wearing a Hijaab necessary. Hijaab is the word used for covering, not only the headscarves (as some people may think) but also wearing loose clothes that are not too bright.



Sometimes, people see covered Muslim women and they think of this as oppression. This is wrong. A Muslim woman is not oppressed, in fact, she is liberated. This is because she is no longer valued for something material, such as her good looks or the shape of her body. She compels others to judge her for her intelligence, kindness, honesty and personality. Therefore, people judge her for who she actually is.



When Muslim women cover their hair and wear loose clothes, they are obeying the orders of their Lord to be modest, not cultural or social mores. In fact, Christian nuns cover their hair out of modesty, yet no one considers them “oppressed”. By following the command of Allaah, Muslim women are doing the exact same thing.

The lives of the people who responded to the Quran have changed drastically. It had a tremendous impact on so many people, especially women, since this was the first time that the souls of man and women were declared equal -- with the same obligations as well as the same rewards.

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Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him) said:



The correct view as indicated by the evidence is that the woman’s face is ‘awrah which must be covered. It is the most tempting part of her body, because what people look at most is the face, so the face is the greatest ‘awrah of a woman. This is in addition to the shar’i evidence which states that it is obligatory to cover the face.



For example, Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):



“And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil, gloves, headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)…”

[al-Noor 24:31]



Drawing the veil all over the juyoob implies covering the face.

When Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) was asked about the aayah (interpretation of the meaning):



“O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies”



[al-Ahzaab 33:59] –



he covered his face, leaving only one eye showing. This indicates that what was meant by the aayah was covering the face. This was the interpretation of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) of this aayah, as narrated from him by ‘Ubaydah al-Salmaani when he asked him about it.



In the Sunnah there are many ahaadeeth, such as: the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The woman in ihraam is forbidden to veil her face (wear niqaab) or to wear the burqa’.” This indicates that when women were not in ihraam, women used to cover their faces.



This does not mean that if a woman takes off her niqaab or burqa’ in the state of ihraam that she should leave her face uncovered in the presence of non-mahram men. Rather she is obliged to cover it with something other than the niqaab or burqa’, on the evidence of the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) who said: “We were with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in ihraam, and when men passed by us, we would lower the khimaar on our heads over our faces, and when they moved on we would lift it again.”

Women in ihraam and otherwise are obliged to cover their faces in front of non-mahram men, becau
anonymous
2010-05-12 19:20:44 UTC
May Allah (swt) guides you. Aameen.


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