Question:
How to explain how much you love your dad ?
ZaRa
2010-12-20 18:26:15 UTC
I am not close to him at all but i love him i know he thinks i don`t love him but i do ..i don`t know how to tell him i love him even thou he wasn`t there for us when we need him,he made some decision of my life which were not good but still i love him. i am his only daughter and i know he loves me and he is feeling bad of what he has done in the past.
i can`t tell him in words cos my words can`t describe how much i love him. i don`t know how i tell him that i got so much love for him in my heart.
i feel so much for him but i am angry with him too but i really want to tell him i do love him.
Thirteen answers:
2010-12-20 19:54:02 UTC
LOL momi this is heart warming and makes me feel go to see someone like this. In my family our father does not show love for his children, nephews and neices, or sisters. He is old school and although it bothered me when I was younger He did all his duties to his family anything we ask and all our absic needs are always met plus much more. He is a very angry man too which makes us all keep our distance but the things he does is amazing. His father abandoned his mother and her children for another woman. Since a small age I believe it was 9 he has been slaving away to marry off his 11 sisters and he the only son. He took care of his mother and brought everyone to America and has done his best to help everyone become settled but they still are displeased. Us human beings are never grateful. Anyways never have seieng his love, or barely seeing him, and when he was home always yelling and shouting me and my brothers did not like him much. But te acts of kindness he does for others is the only reason we respect him and coming from a poor family and at the age of 11 taking care of his family and facing adversity he never shyed away from charity and became wealthy but never was roud probably the only reason I love him. That is the same attribute we have all acquired from him and the greatest inheritance any man could recieve. Love for the poor, to never refuse them, to constantly give charity, and forsake all for honesty and trustworthiness.
Jess
2010-12-21 03:40:05 UTC
I am my father's only child as well. My parents got divorced and he was not around much when I was little. When I was fifteen I had to move in with him. We had had a relationship, but not a very good one. It was very rocky and I was very mean to him, because I couldn't trust him. My mom taught me that he was a bad man, and my mother had abused me in both senses so I could not let him and my step mother in.



We got a family therapist to come in and we were finally able to talk. We started with little things, such as "dad I appreciate you supporting me with my school work" and I was able to say that more often. I was also able to say "dad I need to hear more words of encouragement" this allowed him to say what he liked about me and what he needed me to do and not do.



So basically what I'm saying is just try to start with little things such as thanks dad for this and thanks dad for that. Also maybe you can tell him what you don't like-that will give him comfort to do the same, and you will be able to have a much more open and trusting relationship .



Now I am able to tell my dad these huge rants of how much I love him and appreciate him. But I could not just jump into it, the little steps were really the hardest part and the most effective.



I think you should also ask for the help of Allah. If you keep Allah on your mind, things that are hard for you will become easier. Just continue to make Duaa'. Allah who allem.



Good luck and insha'Allah you will be able to speak your mind.
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2010-12-21 02:37:49 UTC
Salam Your fate is just almost the same with me. I am his single son.But my mother got divorce with my dad when I was 6 months old. I have been raised by my Grand parents from my mother's side since my childhood up to I grown up.My dad got married again with my step mother but they had no child.My dad did not care me at all.But I love him so much and I treat him and his wife just like others do.I remember that without him I would not live here on this earth. Through him and my mother I have been created by Allah swt.My dad that he had regreted that he has neglected my childhood caused by bad situation in the past,so I give apologize to him.
Yoshi
2010-12-21 02:43:16 UTC
awwww thats sweet, im sure your dad knows you love him

=]

the best way to show him that you love him is by doing things for him that he needs help with. talk to him about things that you have been doing, cook him his favourite meal, take him out for a walk.

or buy him something like a sweater or something, spend time with him or simply just tell him you love him and that he is the best daddy in the world

=]



hope i helped

=]



inshallah you are able to show ur dad how much you love him and inshallah you can forgive him for his mistakes and dont be anfry with him, whatever he did im sure he had a good intention and wanted the best for you,

find it in ur heart to forgive him for not being there for you.

after all ur his only daughter.



take care.
Mortified Penguin
2010-12-21 04:17:57 UTC
you can express love in many ways if you sat down and thought for awhile you could come up with so many ways. the first way that comes to my mind is the direct way.



walk up to your dad and give him a hug, not a short hug either a long one and hold him tight too. and simply say that you love him. and make sure you say "i love you daddy" instead of dad cuz all dads love when their little girl calls them daddy no matter how old they get.



good luck! and there are still many other ways to show you love him :)
ahmed2004uk
2010-12-21 09:58:33 UTC
First of all say you love him and then follow it up with good actions and behvaiour towards him.

Eg make him a nice meal/ breakfast, buy him a present, write him a poem and of course always make dua' for him and your mother too. You'll never know how much you owe them until you become a parent yourself.
2010-12-21 03:16:11 UTC
Salam Alaikum



you tell them you Love Muhammed SAW more than them

that is all you say and leave it alone.
2010-12-21 02:35:50 UTC
Think of the ways he would require your assistance, and give him the sadaqa of those things you can think of before your father asks.
2010-12-21 02:30:56 UTC
For Christmas, Write him a Card saying: Dear Dad blah blah blah "Lots of Love" He might understand his not so angry with you after all and but him a present. Invite him for Christmas Dinner and bond with him.
orla
2010-12-21 02:42:59 UTC
Write him a letter telling him everything, don't leave anything out.
Sam
2010-12-21 03:03:36 UTC
By obeying the Father. :)
2010-12-21 05:57:53 UTC
If you love him you should save him from Hell.









From islam’s OWN authoritative ISLAMIC HADITHS. (which if rejected or deemed corrupted will destroy the very foundation of islam).





MURDERER--- "SARIYYAH OF UMAYR IBN ADI - When the apostle heard what she had said he said, "Who will rid me of Marwan's daughter?" Umayr b. Adiy al-Khatmi who was with him heard him, and that very night he went to her house and killed her (Her children were sleeping around her. There was one whom she was suckling. He searched her with his hand because he was blind, and separated the child from her. He thrust his sword in her chest till it pierced up to her back). In the morning he came to the apostle and told him what he had done and he [Muhammad] said, "You have helped Allah and His apostle, O Umayr!" When he asked if he would have to bear any evil consequences the apostle said, "Two goats won't butt their heads about her"



LIAR: Ishaq:166 "'You have recited to the people that which I did not bring to you from Allah, and you have said that which He did not say to you.' The Messenger was grieved and feared Allah greatly.



PED-OPHILE --- Bukhari V7, B62, N64 Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he had sex with her when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years. Muslim (8:3311) - The girl took her dolls with her to Muhammad's house (something to play with when the "prophet" was not having sex with her).



RAPIST--- "I was afraid for you (Muhammad) taking this young lady (ie rape). You had killed her father, her husband and many of her relatives, I was really afraid for you". (Ibn Ishaq, p. 766)



CHILD MOLESTER - Bukhari (6:298) - Muhammad would take a bath with the little girl and fondle her.



ADULTERER - Qur'an (4:24) - "And all married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess." Allah even permitted Muhammad and his men to have sex with married slaves, such as those captured in battle.



PERVERT - Muhammad: "By Allah, I did not come to fight for nothing. I wanted a victory over Ta'if so that I might obtain a slave girl from them and make her pregnant." (Tabari IX: 25) Bukhari (93:639) - The Prophet of Islam would recite the 'Holy Qur'an' with his head in Aisha's lap, when she was menstruating.



ROBBER --- Tabari VII:29', "Then the apostle heard that Abu Sufyan b. Harb was coming from Syria with a large caravan of Quraysh, containing money and merchandise, accompanied by some thirty or forty men." Mohammad said, "This is the Quraysh caravan containing their property, Go out to attack it, perhaps Allah will give it as prey(loot),"



CONTEMPT FOR WOMEN - Tabari IX:113 "Allah permits you to shut them in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing. Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Qur'an." Tabari I:280 "Allah said, 'It is My obligation to make Eve bleed once every month as she made this tree bleed. I must also make Eve stupid, although I created her intelligent.' Because Allah afflicted Eve, all of the women of this world menstruate and are stupid.”



FEAR OF CROSSES - Amr ibn Sharhabil says Muhammad mentioned to his wife Khadijah that he feared he was possessed by demons and wondered whether others might consider him possessed by jinn (Pfander 1910:345). He says Muhammad said; “ When I went into seclusion I heard a voice. By Allah I feared that something wrong was going to happen.” Also revealing is the report by Al Waqidi that Muhammad had such an aversion to the form of the cross that he would break everything brought into the house with a shape of the cross on it (Nehls 1990:61).



FEAR OF CONDEMNATION BY GOD - Narrated Abu Musa: The sun eclipsed and the Prophet jumped up, being terrified that it might be his hour of Judgment. He went to the Mosque and offered the prayer with the longest Qiyam, bowing and prostration that I had ever seen him doing."[Sahih Bukhari Volume 2, Book 18, Number 167]



POISONED to Death--- Narrated 'Aisha: The Prophet in his ailment from which he died, used to say, "O 'Aisha! I still feel the pain caused by the food I ate at Khaibar, and at this time, I feel as if my aorta is being cut from that poison!" (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 5, Book 59, Number 713).



Murderer, Liar, Coward, Ped-ophile, Rapist & Robber and finally punished by getting poisoned painfully to his death (but not before cursing his sons all dying in their infancies). Muhammad did all these shameless acts and muslims either insist against logic that he did not do it or excuse him altogether for these shames.



S.E.R.I.O.U.S…L.Y…….GREATEST PROPHET???….WHAT A JOKE!
2010-12-21 03:02:54 UTC
like this:



"i love you THIIIIIIIS much daddy!"*stretches arms out wide*



LOL


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