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2012-05-31 12:35:53 UTC
To narcissists, people are tools. And while they may not admit it, they also have low self esteem, but many tackle this by creating a false image of themselves in their heads.
They're also manipulative and exploitive and have a tendency to lie or exaggerate reality. These are traits found in other mental illnesses like certain types of depression.
"Narcissism, in lay terms, basically means that a person is totally absorbed in self. The extreme narcissist is the center of his own universe. To an extreme narcissist, people are things to be used. It usually starts with a significant emotional wound resulting in a major trauma of separation/attachment. He has a major attachment dysfunction. The extreme narcissist is frozen in childhood. He became emotionally stuck at the time of his major trauma of separation/attachment.
This trauma was devastating to the point it almost killed that person emotionally. In order to survive, this child had to construct a protective barrier that insulates him/her from the external world of people. He generalized that all people are harmful and cannot be trusted.
The protective insulation barrier he constructed is called a false persona. He created a false identity. This identity is not the true person inside."
What do you think?